An Accident? NEVER!

 Long before you were conceived by your parents, you were conceived in the mind of God, the maker of heaven and earth, even though you parent might have not planned given birth to you. The Bible says "You know me inside and out, you know every bone in my body, you know exactly how i was made, bit by bit, how I was sculptured  from nothing to something". You were made  in the express image of God. You were neither a mistake nor an accident. Jeremiah 1 vs 5 says "Before I formed you in the womb, I knew you, and before you were born, I consecrated you, I appoint you a prophet to the nations". Here is the emphasis that you were never an accident, God planned every single act and stage of your life right from birth to the transition stage. yea, transition stage. Death is only a transition from earth to eternity.
 Here's what Russell Kelfer has to say about it all in his poem

you are who you are for a reason
You're part of an intricate plan
You're a precious and perfect unique design,

called God's special woman or man.

You look like you look for a reason.  

Our God made no mistake.
He knit you together within the womb,
You're just what he wanted to make.

The parents you had were the ones He chose,

 and no matter how you may feel,
They were custom - designed with God's plan in mind,
And they bear the master's seal. 

No, that trauma you faced was not easy. 

And God wept that it hurt you so;
But it was allowed to shape your heart 

So that into his likeness you'd grow.

You are who you are for a reason,
You're been formed by the Master's rod.
You are who you are, beloved,
Because there is a God!